Wednesday, March 23, 2011

A WEEK OF BLESSINGS....

There are times in our lives that we are unable to see the work that God has been doing until days, months, maybe even years have passed. We are able to see events occurring and opportunities unfolding, but not make the connection with God's plan. For my family, this is not one of those times. God's presence and his plan has never been clearer than it has been the past few weeks, specifically, last week.

After a few weeks of bed rest, Sarah finally made it to March 16, delivery day for my little neice. Just as stubborn as her cousin, Taylor, Baby Langham was sitting in breech position. So, Sarah had a cesarean and Masyn Kristine Langham was delivered at 8:29am measuring in at 7 lbs 4 ozs and 19". She is perfect in every way and, in case you can't tell, looks identical to Braylin AND Jay as a baby. We didn't have quite the crowd in the waiting room this time....just Gammie, PopPop, Poppi, Pops, GaGa, GayGay, Gramp, Lala, DayDay, Pam...Ok, well, it was still a pretty big crowd.
On March 17, my grandmother was given permission by her doctor to be taken from LifeCare down two floors, where she was able to hold Masyn. It was an amazing moment, lots of tears, priceless pictures, and memories that Sarah and Jay will cherish forever, those of Gram brushing Masyn head accross her cheek and giving her kisses.
That evening, Ray stayed home from a dental meeting so I could spend the evening with my family at the hospital. Gram and Grandaddy on the 8th in LifeCare and Sarah and Masyn on the 6th in postpartum. About an hour holding my beautiful baby neice and a few special moments talking movies, wheel of fortune, Baby Masyn, Taylor's antics, and milkshakes with my Gram. Wrapping up both with an I love you and a hug.

On the morning of March 18th, my Gram peacefully went to be with the Lord. It had been a long battle, ten years since she was diagnosed with cancer, multiple treatments, countless procedures, so many medicines. She fought for her life for a decade. Gram was tired. She had been telling us for a week or so that she was ready for the Lord to take her. As hard as it hurts to let her go, we did not want her suffering anymore and are forever grateful for the Lord answering her prayers.

Gram and our family received so many blessings over the past 10 years in the form of the many doctors, nurses, therapists, aides, our church families and friends. My family has been lifting all of them up to the Lord in praise. Each person that came in contact with Gram helped to give us another laugh, another hug, another holiday, another birthday, and so many memories.

I am especially thankful for all the moments that Gram shared with Taylor. So many special memories and pictures. We look forward to many more memories with all of Taylor's grandparents and great-grandparents!!!


GiGi (Gram) had a 'tea party' for the girls at her coffee table. Braylin and Taylor would share cookies and juice. Don't worry Gramp, the girls still want to tea party with you!!
So, after a long week of emotions on high, it is a relief to know that God's hand was in every moment. What a blessing for our family to receive a new member and send a member to heaven all within one week. Masyn, I am sure, will be just a precious and sweet spirited as her sister, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. And Gram will forever be the strongest woman I ever was blessed to know and love.

4 comments:

  1. Jen, you have me in tears! I have definitely been saying some prayers for all of you! I know this is a difficult, yet happy time as well. All of you are in my thoughts.

    Love,
    Laura

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  2. Jen, what a beautiful post and tribute to a fine woman, who of course, has fine women who have learned from her. I am so glad for last week's blessings...all of them....a new little life here, a new heavenly body for your Gram, a bit of peace for your Gramp, and all those wonderful moments your family shared. I know she adored her family!! :-) love to you, Laura

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  3. That was so sweet. You brought tears to my eyes.

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  4. Words from a loving heart! Loving sister, loving daughter, loving granddaughter--thanks Jen for painting such a beautiful picture that brought not only tears to our eyes, but a smile to our faces as we remembered your Gram and the love and joy she shared in each of your lives! Heaven is blessed with her presence now! Love, Kak

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